Originally Posted By: Cadet
Originally Posted By: Starsky309
Might be simpler to just operate from the basis that there likely IS an affair going on, and proceed accordingly.

Even when there is NO AFFAIR their is some sort of fantasy going on that IMHO makes it an affair.

Like PORN or a Romance Novel.

And infidelity occurs when they leave the marriage whether their is an affair or not!


Great point, Cadet. Such fantasies and "unrequited love" situations have addictively strong pulls on a wayward mind!


Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)