Wow Elsa. He is just not really willing to try at all. That could change, but if he's really not willing to even TRY to see things from your perspective, that sounds really immature and selfish. Is that the kind of person you want as your partner in life? I applaud you for trying to make it work, but don't put his needs before yours. Make sure you are taking care of yourself and planning for your future, either way things turn out.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!