Originally Posted By: Cadet
Originally Posted By: Starsky309
Might be simpler to just operate from the basis that there likely IS an affair going on, and proceed accordingly.

Even when there is NO AFFAIR their is some sort of fantasy going on that IMHO makes it an affair.

Like PORN or a Romance Novel.

And infidelity occurs when they leave the marriage whether their is an affair or not!


Their affairs are porn and romance novels to them, that they get addicted to. Think about that one for a minute.