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[Calibri]

Calibri, practical is very good, knowing where you stand is in my book essential. Then you can make informed choices and are ready to act when the time is right (I hope it never is). You will then know what the consequences of backing off are too, which if you are unsure is also a valid choice.

If you feel you need a second or third L opinion get one, understand your position even if you are feeling emotionally raw. If unsure of filing you need not act but you will know what to do to protect yourself. Knowledge is power.

Vanilla

Vanilla

Hi Vanilla,

Thank you for stopping by my posts. I appreciate it - and always enjoy reading your posts on other people's threads. You're so much fun.

Now that H's mentally ill, unstable mother has inserted herself into our business, and H has gone off the grid, I have to put things into play at least to cover myself financially in case H starts accumulating debt, etc. It also protects H as well.

It's not what I want. But sometimes in life, we have to do things in life that we don't want to do. The paperwork is started. We still have eight months to go before anyone can file for divorce.

Time is there.

But I don't think time is going to heal this wound.