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I would be horrified if my pastor, (priest) discussed anything I said in confidence with H or anyone else at my church. Whether this is preferred is another question!

Mind you, I am a left footer, so the confidentially is traditional in my religion.

Frankly I have made it clear that whilst I will not be discussing our S with friends and relatives that I will not lie for H. Particularly about his drinking gambling etc........

If his behaviour affects me then I reserve the right to seek as much help as I need, GAManon, GAmcare (IC counselling for those affected by gambling), pastoral help, family support (which has been largely unnecessary) and DB etc.....

I also reserve the right if it affects my livelihood to take whatever action that I need to protect myself.

V


Last edited by Vanilla; 01/27/15 04:08 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW