Good morning, To recap what happened lastnight. I got home and she had left me a massage on the fridge saying she needed time to pack for her school trip this coming week. I said that Wednesday is the only day good for me, because I will be out a little late so she could have her time. Because at this moment she and I are not on seeing terms, guidance from her psychologist. i did not leave any room for debate, I was not rude but I just didn't leave it open ended; was this ok.
The post I made about acrobatics was cleared and posted too late. I accepted the invite on the premise she would not be there. But what I didn't know was one of them informed her that I was going to be there just trying to get out of the house. I didn't see anything wrong with this approach because the person I was with is very neutral party and very nice. W and OM did not show up. Let me know how you all feel about that decision. If advised against I will drop instantly. saving my marriage is #1.
