In the grand scheme of things, it isn't a big deal. You get to choose how you look at your W's text message. You can look at it as a backslide by letting her draw you in or you can choose to look at it as a progress report about where you are at.
Utilize it as a positive. It helps you see where you are at, and where you need to get to.
Step back, evaluate this particular interaction, while removing the emotions. You might be able to see that it really isn't a big deal.
Did you let her know that you had plans?
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
