Ok, deep breath... I am struggling detaching and still staying invested. As far as the go find clarity, at that time it was on the premise she was staying with a friend and she just needed time and space to decompress. not him, I did not want to give the impression of "go do what you want including him." So my question would be how to correct this. As far as the acrobatics thing they only want to work with me on Mondays. Days that W and OM are not there. If this really is a bad idea I will stop. I want to do what is best to get my marriage back.
I have begun to make my GAL in hopes that it will keep me occupied and excited for the future. I am going out this weekend to buy new outfits and that cologne she loves. I am hurt, resentful and angry but I still immensely love my wife and I know that this happened in a moment of weakness. But now she is acting without any regard for anyone's feelings but her own. I will continue the tough love approach. Thank you very much.
