Cadet, You said 'TRUST his ACTIONS not his words. '. So I suggested in an email that I visit him in Moscow as I have done for the last two years. I told him that I didn't expect him to do anything for me and that I just needed a place to stay............. His actions, he agreed and for the first time he paid for my flights. Leaving this saturday and staying for one week.
I consider this an important week in my sitch, there are many distractions and little privacy when he is home, but over there it is just the two of us.
On each of my previous visits he went out of his way to ensure that we were not alone very often, he worked during the day and usually asked me to meet him somewhere, he never wanted to talk...........
Not sure how to approach this visit. I think the time is over for not talking, considering his relevations to my family but what to say, what to do, while still 'standing'???????????
