The common signs of an affair

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Susana,
In my sitch, I didn't know until I lost it when I found out they were at lunch together at a place supposedly he'd never been before. She wasn't hiding the fact they were at lunch, but I wanted to bring her something for lunch and she told me where and who she was with. Luckily, for me she came right out and said she had feelings for this guy. The sure sign for me was looking at her cell phone text usage and near 24/7 text exchange with OM.

I would certainly think your H is having an affair. In my opinion, I find it difficult for a young man to just simply want away from his woman without someone else in the picture.