Strong EA after 2yrs M - trying to detach. #3

[Complex]

Thanks Mozza. I'll see how I feel with my new therapist that got assigned to me.
In general to me it's kinda surprising that ALL therapys regarding WASs are about yourself. While this is the only thing we can really work on, there are psychological ways to get someone to critically think again (like our W's) and attract them to us and away from A. By it's such a highly individual topic and you probably need a guru or a sorcerer instead of a therapist lol.

The therapist like you said should be the last one making any assumptions in the first session. That's my job^^. Glad I'll get another one. And if I'm not getting comfortable with them I'll let them know and switch.


Well my personal opinion on the bed issue: no big fighting is priority. Boundaries are equally important tho and I can't be afraid of W getting upset to me.
If it's becoming a bigger deal than I want it to be I'll be willing to compromise to a certain extend, where we could switch once in a while depending on work or so.