broken,
Seems like you are on the right track, detaching. I don't think you are wrong for the investigation. I'm prior service, Army, and adultery is unbecoming of a NCO in my opinion. Hopefully, it'll result in OM shedding some of that rank into the E1 - E4 pay. That'll make him less the OM for your W. What branch of service are you in? Are you and OM in the same company, battalion, brigade, etc.? I'm assuming you're a gate guard since you have to see your wife come to work. Hopefully, you'll get a shift that doesn't merry up with when she has to come through. I'm no vet on these boards, but detaching is one thing, but I can only imagine what its like to possibly see wife with OM constantly. Stay strong.

Last edited by Arcola; 01/27/15 04:05 AM.

Me:30 W:34
M:8 T:9
D:9 D:4 D:3 S:4 S:1
D bomb: 8/2014
S 12/2014
PA Confirmed in 3/2015 if I recall correctly