I am trying to figure out what my 180 should be. One of H complaints is that I am too independent and that I do not need him for anything. So one of the rules is never to say I need you. But I feel like he wants to hear that. What should I do?
Me 44; H 48 no kids together; H has D24, D19 M 14; T 18 DB 12/21/14 living together (for now)
