Singing in the Lifeboat

[daring]

Thanks Job- it is about time he gets his chit together!
He actually even looked up our toll tag info and is starting to pay it off and try to set up new accounts.
So today I got some info from the lawyer in FL about the foreclosure. If he's correct it's better than we thought but there is still some risk. At least it decreases the total debt H and I have to haggle about. So I called him and told him the info- he said ok sounds like we have what we need and we should meet and look through everything again. I said yes- sounds like it. He said he called his lawyer and said he wanted to take all the petty BS off the spreadsheet ( like household goods etc) and just put the big stuff down. I responded surprised as I thought it was required. He said he thought so too until he asked her and she said he just had to sign a waiver if he didn't want the detailed itemization. ( mind reading here but I think he knows what an a$$ he looked like with the initial couple of versions of papers and is trying to not have me mad at him).
So then I mentioned that if we are going to put in the agreement that I'm paying anything towards his company loan I still want documentation. He seemed a little flustered and said " well it's not going to show anything different than I said, but ok I'll get you whatever you want". Then I just put it out there and said " for all I know you don't owe this back to anyone as I'm going to pay it and you're just going to keep it. And then I'm paying the entire IRS debt myself too". He said sounds like this is a conversation better had in person....

So I don't know if he's lying about the company repayment or what. But it's still a little fishy. I'm not doing anything without documentation and I'm at the so what point if he realizes I don't trust him.

I imagine in the next few weeks my D will then be finalized. I have mixed emotions about that. But that M is surely beyond dead- it's been run over multiple times! My next R ( H or a new one) will occur with many more tools and the benefit of my self development. Focusing on the future now......