The common signs of an affair

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Hi susana, sorry to hear. I'll look at your other thread later.
My OM Bomb drop was very recent so I did a lot of reflecting.

My W told me things like:
- I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore
- I'm such a bad wife (guilt)
- you are just not for me, I want something more in my life
- we are not compatible
- less sex drive
- taking care of herself better than usual
- friends become more important

Did you buy Michelle's book already? Most questions are answered in there. Or just google for affair signs. The thing is you probably have a gut feeling, but there's fog in your head so you are confused.
Later you will look back like me and say "omg, it was so obvious". Always get prepared for the worst! There might be nothing tho, I don't know your situation yet.
Keep your head up!!! You landed in the right place with a lot of big hearts and wisdom!