You are still going from one extreme to the other. Just yesterday you were saying something about not responding to her.

Yes, temp checks messes with the LBH's head. When she said she misses you, my suggestion would have been, "What do you want me to say, W?" Or very calmly say, "How am I suppose to respond when you say something like that, W?" Or simply say, "Thank you" and leave it at that. After all, she was the one who wanted out of the M. So, hand it back to her. She is temperature checking you out. Now she has you texting back and forth again. So......she not only got her answer, but much more.

I know everyone doesn't agree with this, but that's okay. And if you want to lose ground again, that's fine. I am not suggesting you should be be rude (I never have), but find your equator instead of jumpIng from one pole to the other one.


Last edited by sandi2; 01/27/15 01:11 AM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!