Sorry if I'm breaking forum etiquette here, I have a thread over in newcomers, but quite a few people have suggested there might be an OW involved (as far as I know there isn't). I thought it might be helpful for other newcomers too, who aren't sure if there's an OP, to have a list of common signs of an affair...
So I was wondering, what signs did you guys see in the lead up to the reveal of the EA/PA? Did you see it coming, and what clues did you see? Or looking back, what were the signs you see now that you missed at the time?
1. Greatly decreased affections in a very qquick window of time. 2. Closed towards you all the time when they were normally "open" 3. Not a lot of time for you when before they had time 4. Angry at you all the time and you did nothing.... Many flip their blame onto you. 5. Nothing you do is right, ultra critical towards you when they weren't before. Brain rationalizes the affair by finding flaws in you 6. Coming in late at night or leaving much earlier out of the blue. 7. Hides cell phones, always talking on it out of earshot
Those are just some.
The quickest way to bust a cheater in this day and age is a Voice Activated Recorder in the car.
Another way is to have a cell phone spy app or keylogger on the computer.
Many of it is done in social networking and chat.
Always collect enough intel before confronting and do not reveal the source of your information.
