Sorry if I'm breaking forum etiquette here, I have a thread over in newcomers, but quite a few people have suggested there might be an OW involved (as far as I know there isn't). I thought it might be helpful for other newcomers too, who aren't sure if there's an OP, to have a list of common signs of an affair...

So I was wondering, what signs did you guys see in the lead up to the reveal of the EA/PA? Did you see it coming, and what clues did you see? Or looking back, what were the signs you see now that you missed at the time?

Last edited by susana4; 01/27/15 12:16 AM.

Me 28 / H 28
M 1 / T 2.5
BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more"
Still living together, separate rooms.