Pink

You have an L who is giving you advice. Your H is wayward and compulsive, may be fast and loose with cash and savings. Is enchanted with a crawly OW.

I do understand Wonkas point about keeping calm when you are emotional and not knee jerking. It is something I agree with whole heartedly.

My sense is that Pink's analysis is balanced and fair, it comes across as thoughtful and well reasoned. pink has been considering this for a longer period than is apparent. In a short period of time the unveiling and facing of the actual real A has removed the doubt for action and replaced randomness and in fact by consulting with two L before choosing this third L you have reasoned and taken your time. I see this as a hard decision but one you are clear headed enough to make. Whatever you do Pink, we are here for you to support your decision. Of course this sort of decision is emotional and there will be fall out, but cool and clear, and more in sorrow than in anger. Will it hurt? It will cause you concern in the damage to your R. In truth this R is already more damaged by H and his OW. Pink is going to be stronger from this experience and I wished it were different for Pink and her children with all my heart and prayers.

Can you DB when legally S, most assuredly.

Peace
V

Last edited by Vanilla; 01/26/15 11:52 PM.
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