Wishing, I think your former neighbors went to the wedding out of curiosity...nothing more. Let's face it, your xh screwed up his life and he was another one that had a nice home, wife and lovely family...so what did he got after? They had to see if for themselves in order to believe what he took up with.
Any way, take things slowly and when the time is right, you'll know when to take things further, i.e., moving in together. Sometimes we have to kiss a lot of frogs to find the real prince that will appreciate, love and cherish you the way you were meant to be.
Here's hoping the new year will be a far, far better one for you and your family. It's time for you to begin a new chapter in your life as the page is blank and waiting for you to begin to write on it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
