Drop the fear and realize that everything WILL work out in the end (one way or another) and I will be better because of it.
Absolutely. Easier said, than done. It starts with the first step.
Originally Posted By: u-turn
Though he did talk about his opinion of telling OMW, and everyone else, and letting W know that I wasn't going to cover for her any more.
I can understand not covering for her, but I don't think it is a good idea to tell everyone. Mostly, because if/when you and your W work things out, now you have placed additional obstacles in front of you. Additionally, it comes off as being vindictive.
Originally Posted By: u-turn
Yesterday morning I spoke to W and told her that I know everything and I know that she lies to me about everything. She had initial anger thinking it was as simple as me tracking her, but it is way more than that. It is so simple to see when I step back and look. I told her that I will not continue this way. We started talking about how we are going to separate. She asked me questions about things that I wanted (christmas stuff that she is still putting away - I said I didn't want it).
That is a good step in the right direction. Make sure your actions align with that.
Originally Posted By: u-turn
I intend to move my pay to a new checking account and transfer money to the common one for half the bills (with proof of where the money is going).
Don't wait on this. Make this happen as soon as you can.
How are things today?
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
