Now that the divorce petition has been dismissed is there still such a thing as "wife's day"???
You are married again without any court orders directing your relationship with her or your children. Doesn't this now mean that you [both] have 100% custody???
If the kids want to stay with you more...let them. Unless she refiles and gets orders you and the kids can do whatever you want.
You also don't have to pay child support anymore???? Do you???.
I remember your story from the "other forum". Until Chris is out of the picture, you can't do one single thing to work on your marriage. It's been over a year now and the divorce petition has lapsed....you should be completely dark on her until "no contact" is established.
You remain her back up plan, but your give a crap has just about left the building. You've also dated other women and cheated on her so you've made a disaster of this reconciliation process. She WANTS to get back together and eliminating all contact (a complete 180) sounds like the best course of action. What you've been doing hasn't worked.
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!