WAH - gone almost 1 year, still so hard.

[stacey9]

Thanks RPP, you're probably right, I'll try and find a local handy man!

I'm not trying to delay matters, or financially ruin H, I just want to make sure I get exactly what I'm entitled to, and at the moment that is proving tricky.

Thank you too Karma. In your sitch - did your H and OW live together for a year and a half? I hope my H and OW tire of each other quickly, although at the moment they are renting a house and H has told me he is keen to buy a property so it will be interesting to see if they do it jointly. Then they are really tied together.

D20 was very upset about them living together, it was heartbreaking to see her like that. How dare they upset her. The H I knew would never hurt his family and would do anything to protect us. How times change.
Thanks again for your input.