So- I spent a lot of time thinking about your situation last night. This, in conjunction with his onetime trolling of Craigslist for escorts makes me very concerned.
First of all- it seems like he might be getting close to potentially crossing over the line into dangerous/illegal activity, no?
Second - there's also the possibility that he is actually "funding" some of these activities and funding them with marital assets. Combined with the fact that he hasn't worked in a year - if I were you I might want to lock down the finances a little more.
I can't remember if you ever saw a lawyer- but if you haven't this might be the time.
I'd be interested to hear what others think - but your situation almost seems like a private investigator might be in order. It's very possible this is all just fantasy for him and he hasn't taken any action. But then again, he might have taken it up a notch when he moved out.
I just think its time to be hardcore about protecting yourself.
