Originally Posted By: Calibri
Appointment to see an attorney this afternoon to draw up separation papers. I have to protect myself financially.

This is not what I want. But it's what I have to do to protect myself.

He's not coming back. He's too lost. I'm too broken.

All he had to do was trust in me years ago to say, "hey, I'm not happy with some things, lets work on it."

And instead he ignored it, and let it fester and now I'm seeing a lawyer and trying to figure out how to pull myself back together again.

I know I'm saying the same drabble over and over again. I just cannot believe I'm where I'm at.


Calibri, practical is very good, knowing where you stand is in my book essential. Then you can make informed choices and are ready to act when the time is right (I hope it never is). You will then know what the consequences of backing off are too, which if you are unsure is also a valid choice.

If you feel you need a second or third L opinion get one, understand your position even if you are feeling emotionally raw. If unsure of filing you need not act but you will know what to do to protect yourself. Knowledge is power.

Vanilla

Vanilla

Last edited by Vanilla; 01/26/15 05:50 PM.
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