[RosaLinda]

So, like I said I activated my FB profile and invited a couple of GFs. Now I have this dilemma. I want to invite some people, but they are already H’s friends on FB. I cannot decide if I want to avoid having common friends or do I need to care about it. I don’t want H to think that I invited them because they are in his circle already. There are some that I would love to have in my circle, but I don’t know what to do now. Will sit on it some more.

Just catching up on your sitch, my friend! Your H sounds like he has not changed a bit, he is still searching for that elusive "something" that will make him happy huh? But you sound quite a bit stronger and happier, well most of the time LOL.

Job is right, I don't think you should hesitate to invite YOUR mutual friends to be your friends on FB because of your H. He seems to be infiltrating your thoughts less and less as you get more detached; this will be good practice for you, because you are not quite there yet. Actually I am not sure any of us will ever get 100% detached from the person we were married to for so many years. It's harder for people with kids, and who still have their business and accounts attached like you two do. But it gets easier Bright, keep plugging away, you're doing great!

I would LOVE to be your friend on the alt! I think if you google my old DB name and occupation and town (Miller Place) you can find me listed under something like AttorneyFee. I can't believe I used to have all of that information in my signature, not too smart LOL, but it enabled some awesome people to figure out who I am and befriend me.

So....how was the party? I am betting you looked HOT