It will take time for him to trust your changes. He will be watching for the old you to resurface and may even try and trigger you to see your response.
For now focus on you and become the you you want to be in your marriage. Keep up the 180's and GaL. If you keep busy it helps deal with the limbo.
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.