I have been letting go. I had an incident in the store though. It was like I was being taunted because I have been working so hard to put everything to bed. Im going to focus on me. I have only a couple days until court. He has been calling me but I have noticed he has stopped. I feel like they last thing I said to him was kind of controlling and he will not respond to me because of that. This is an area I need to back off in majorly. I know I need to make him feel free in his choices. At the same time I have also realized I am free as well. I some times let his lack of communication upset me and unravel me. NO MORE!! Their is alot of books about self soothing oneself. I have put my neediness on this relationship and I see that.
Any suggestions??
Me:34/EXH:29 Kids: S13, D5, D4 M/o7 HaskedforDgavetohim6/14 decided to work on get remarried counseling. Kids work went back to old routine. Left Nov 10 2014 OWDec92014