Yes I have made changes, and I think he is seeing them through my actions. I am being much more proactive in thinking about what he might like. For example, before, when he was sick I would ask him what he wanted for dinner and get frustrated when he would be short and just tell me “whatever”. This weekend, I went ahead and made some soup for him. Doesn’t sound like much, but he told me he appreciated me cooking.
Is this type of change life long? Only time will tell I guess.
But yes, patience is something I really struggle with.
Me:30 H:31 D1 T: 7 years M: 3.5 years BD: 12/2014 3 month S starts: 2/2015