Do you believe that you have made enough changes for him to consider coming back?
Genuine, life-long changes?
Is being patient a 180 for you?
When something didn't go your way, would you do something to provoke a response? Even if the response was negative?
How would your M/R look different than it was before?
Ultimately you still need to do the work, regardless what takes place with your M/R.
That being said, limbo is no way to live. You just have to be ready to be divorced.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
