I personally don't think the pot brownie is that big a deal, but what do I know? I've never done drugs but I did live 16 of my 42 years in California.
The threatening, though, I don't care for. On either side. How did that come up?
I'm not that concerns about a pot brownie, either. It actually didn't surprise me. I already wondered if she had tried drugs the last 8 months. She is definitely going through even more chaos than I am. She's already drinking way more than she ever has, and she's on all kinds of mental health meds. I think she's looking for any kind of escape.
As far as the threats, we were just hanging out for a bit last night when I dropped off D2. One of my cousins came up, who doesn't like WAW (it's no secret). I mentioned that she already thinks you had an A, that we got into an argument about it in Oct, and I defended WAW saying she wasn't. WAW said, "Well now you can go back and tell her. And if you do I'll tell the whole world you chose porn over me for 10 years." It was purely defensive, trying to deflect some of the guilt. I wasn't trying to make her feel guilty, but obviously I did. So I will avoid the subject altogether unles we try to reconcile.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23
