I'm sorry, SS. I know that's difficult to hear although I doubt you are very surprised at your core. It is a smack in the face though. When the WAS wants to "be alone", "find him or herself", or "wanting to focus on him or herself", that generally implies they plan on hooking up or are already hooking up with other peeps. That is he one thing I read I sitches that I feel horrible for the people who truly don't see it coming. I don't say that to be cavalier-just feeling sassy.
Hang in there! You are doing g-r-e-a-t:-)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer