I'm so sorry, Ss. That's a bad punch in the gut. I'm really, really sorry.
It IS about him and his inability to conduct himself in a mature, mutually supportive relationship. You ARE a rockstar. And knowing this, as bad as it hurts, gives you power. Now you know what you're dealing with, so you can operate more effectively.
Hugs and chocolate, lady, and remember to BREATHE.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15