Hi Pink, I hope making a choice to go legal has given you some peace. I think you are doing the right thing. Your H needs to face upto what he is losing.
You are very brave to face your fears of upsetting H but you have to protect your family.
You are in a very raw and tough place. Your H is acting like a teenager again but you have to be the adult and you are being. I know no one can post the words to make you feel ok but by proctecting yourself you are not cutting off H or finishing your M. It might seem like it but when you look back your actions will be a small piece in the puzzle. Your H is sleeping with OW. Anytime you doubt your actions or worry that H will be upset remember this.
You are worth alot more than how you H is treating you and you will get more. It might take time but you will get through this.
Thinking of you and admiring your strentgh.. Take RD
