Today was promising. He came over to spend some time with our D4. We had lunch together, flew a kite and just talked and laughed. He spent a few hours here until he had to go. As he was leaving he hugged me goodbye and told me how good my hair smelled. I was shocked and not expected by that at all. My husband is not a person who gives compliments readily; in fact he's never said that before. I'm trying to just take it at face value but it did strike me as different.
What do you think you did differently or how did you act differently that made the whole interaction more positive? Identify what you think worked and keep doing that! Remember small, consistent changes are what it takes. And hope you are getting out and doing activities you enjoy. Remember to make changes for you, and your happiness (not with him in mind).
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
Remember to make changes for you, and your happiness (not with him in mind).