Sorry you had a rough weekend, I hope that you are feeling better even if only a little. I imagine it must all feel very raw at the moment?
Theres no rush to make a decision on the seperation, so take whatever time you need to feel more at ease with it and to make sure its a decision not a reaction.
I often find it helpful to make sure we distinguish between a decision and an outcome. we can make good decisions and have terrible outcomes and we can make terrible decisions and have good outcomes, but in general good decisions make a good outcome more likely (just not necessarily the outcome we anticipated). Its a slighlty rambly way of saying its best to let go of a specific outcome and focus on whether the decision is good based on the whole range of possible outcomes.
Irrespective we are here for you to help in anyway we can
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
