I come home in the middle of the night from work after a 16h day and W moved back into the main bedroom after being dark for 4 days....I'm pretty mad. Didn't get into an argument tho. How am I going to explain to her tomorrow that I do not accept that without letting her control me and without making an argument over it?


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15