I'm sorry, BK. It may sound cavalier as I know how much it hurts to watch your children struggle (trust me-I do:), however your xh is truly missing out. Wouldn't want to swap places with him for anything.
Hope your D feels better. You are doing great!!!
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer