Pot brownie is just another sign that both of you are in a transition period where much experiment happens. I also don't mind it much, especially as it's getting legal in more places.
I'm also curious about how the threatening came about. I'll say though that an A is a much bigger issue than a "porn problem". As I've stated here before, it's a problem because she makes it one, in all legitimacy. Not sure I'd think less of the person. Anyway, we'll see how it was brought up, but the first one who did is likely the more insecure one about their faults.
I'm interested to see where these feelings will take you, especially if they will affect your detachment, PMA, etc. Following you closely.
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