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Hi Joe, It does sound like MLC and also probably an affair to boot. Focusing on yourself, even if it doesn't get her back in the bedroom, will be beneficial for you working on yourself. Definitely try some 180s, but also please do go out at night and enjoy yourself with friends. And let her wonder a bit what you're up to. It's so stupid to have to play games at this point, after so many years, and with your own spouse, but sometimes you have to do things that are counter-intuitive. A person in an affair is not thinking logically, so she will not be able to just sit down and have a frank discussion with you about what's going on. So let her figure things out for herself, and in the meantime, work on getting some GAL activities going and stay positive.