Okay I won't send a text to her then. I haven't spoken a word to her since the end of October, I never look at her FB page so I haven't a clue what's up in her life. All I know is I've heard she talks to my aunt once every few weeks and yesterday her mom "followed" me on FB. Why? I have noi idea but I have always suspected that my x in laws didn't want her to do this and once everything blew up in her face I think they realize she let a good man go. Our problems were very fixable and WAW admitted to me last time we spoke that if not for OM manipulating her things would've probably turned out differently. However maintaining radio silence seems to be the advice of the day here and since I've only a few hours before her birthday passes I wanted to make a decision. I wasn't sure if ignoring her BD would hurt my slim hopes that one day she may come back instead of help them. Thanks to you all and I really appreciate the advice. I will definitely keep you all posted.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
