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What do you mean when you say no clues Sandi?


Just my way of conversing in writing.

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Also what's your opinion on me texting a happy birthday today?


I probably would not have encouraged it, however, maybe it won't be a negative. I know you have been missing her a lot, however, I often feel that birthdays, etc., are harder on the LBS than the one who walked away. You know me, I am quick to tell the LBH not to do anything to pursue,which I personally see sending cards that way, but that JMO.

If you will not follow up with some other form of contact, I don't think it hurt too much. Just lets her know you were thinking about her. eek

I tell ya, with some of these sweet ladies around here, I must look awful calloused at times. Although, my heart does mean well.

Are you still GAL? Ever see that lady friend?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!