Strong EA after 2yrs M - trying to detach. #3

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Thanks Zew, you deliver a positive perspective. SRD is right tho, there need to be some level of mutual respect, everything else is just acceptable and also shouldn't be in your own boundaries.
Be cautious tho that these situations won't make you mad and get you into discussions with W, because that's going to hurt your DBing.
Best thing then is to leave, or go into another room. Stay calm when she does sth beyond your boundaries and tell her that you do not approve/respect what she is doing and ask her for respect. Be strong, confident, calm. But don't assume things, she will hold that against you!