I'm late to the party, I see. How have you been doing, beside missing your W? You have done a good job in not perusing her.
I suppose I have a suspicious mind when it comes to a WAW, but I don't think it is weird that she talks to your aunt once a month or that it's odd her mother has suddenly started following you on FB. No clues? It is her way of keeping track of you!
Sometimes men are just too easy. (jk).
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
