Strong EA after 2yrs M - trying to detach. #3

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Sorry to hear too.
We all know things like this aren't suppose to happen in our lives. But then they actually are. To make us a better person, to mature us in our relationships and give us the knowledge what's important to us in life and what we want from it.
And eventually it will teach the WAS spouse too one day.
Life isn't easy. I thought it was. It was when we were young I guess. And maybe when we are old farts it will be again

Another day away from home for me. Then I'll be home for a couple of weeks and I really have to see how the in home separation will take place and what it will bring. Not expecting it to be easy. Being gone helps me.

Hopefully my DB coach, therapist and some people here can help me to get through the separation situation at home. Mostly it's GAL and 180 time I suppose.
But the constant contact won't make it easy. And that family will know is around the corner.

I'll just do my thing and watch 'from outside' what's going to happen ..

Thanks.