Sorry to hear how it currently stands. I was reading your story this morning. I didnt manage to get through it all. I had the BD on me just over a week ago. I knew it was coming for a long time to be honest. Tried DBing last 6 months to turn it around but she was already in an affair so already gone. It made me mad today. You just want to shake this person and say what the hell are you doing. Am i really that bad. Of course im not but im am an old slipper and she wants a new glass one. The grass is not greener. It just appears that way because your blinded but its too late. Nothing i say or do now will persuade her otherwise. I've decided to move on as soon as I can find another place. She kept asking for space (fool me) well now she can and lots of it. She seemms to think we'll still be bessie mates when we're done. That aint gonna happen. I can deal with this and ill get through a better person. My wife well she'll have to deal with her decisions as well. What wrenches my gut is that our D8 didnt ask for this. As a child of a very bad divorce when i was 11 im still dealing with those issues 30 years later. Plus side, I had a great day today with D8.
Keep your spirits up everyone.
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on
