WAW Affair admitted

[Ontheup]

I am looking to stay in the same areas as I am now. I love where I live. Why should I give that up? and yes so im close to my daughter? It just so happened this house I looked at was about a mile away but im viewing another next week a bit further.

Well first of all, a mile away is not just around the corner, as you had said. And I am not saying not to be close to your D, but honestly, what can you do for her in a mile away that you couldn't do five miles away? The point I am trying to make is to be true with yourself. You told us in the beginning that your W said you had made her feel like a single parent. Just saying.........

There have been other LBH'S who would move into a house too close to the W's and then they would see too much. Kept them upset all the time. You don't need to be driving by her house every time you head to your place. If you are going to live apart, then at least make it far enough you don't have to drive by her place all the time. Do you see what I am trying to say? You don't have to move out of town, but neither should you live too close. If you are going to separate, then don't try to move into the back yard.

Hey Sandi

My wife said i made her feel like a sinbgle parent when she was already having an affair. Just another trick to deflect all the blame onto me. Im such a bad husband etc.

Ive been thinking about this today and yes ive made my mistakes but i a bloody good husaband and father. I took up most of the slack at home while she was setting her businsess up. I have done all the IT for their company for free obviously. I have been there the whole time for her to give help advice etc with her business. Bounce ideas off me. I dont drink (hardly ever) i dont smoke, i keep fit. Yes i let her down with regard to setting boundries wih my mum. I didnt know any better until it was too late. Some church stuff i didnt get involved in. Im not religious so thought it wasnt for me to do. Emotionally we became disconnected. I now see the wrong in that. She obviuosly thinks the grass greener. Well good luck because we all know the grass is rairly ever greener.