Hi RD - I'll offer my 0.2 anyway. It looks to me as though what you are going is working rather than otherwise, so I would keep on doing what is working. However, it is early days and best to keep your expectations low, and keep working on detachment. Respond to your W with 80% of her enthusiasm etc.

Remember, given the severity of what has happened in most of our sitches, there would need to be evidence that our S's have had a significant awakening and they want to turn back to the M from the very bottom of their hearts.

Hope things continue to go well for you...don't burn that roast!!

Toots x

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus