Wow...it sounds like he is waffling all over the place. How can you possibly trust anything that comes our of his mouth. It does sound like he has no idea who he is what he wants. He just morphs into whatever is expected at the time.

His parents are over involved. This may be the root of his issues. I have adult children and would never get involved in their person relationships like that. I would have told my son to man up and figure things out and go talk to you.

So you really want a man child as a husband? He needs IC to grow up and stand on his own two feet. So sorry you are hurting.

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.