The first was back in 95 and he was an employee the reported directly to me at the company I worked for. My neighbor revealed the A to me so I confr W and OM and they admitted to a PA. The next day W tried to overdose on pills, I called 911 and she was taken to the hospital to get her stomach "pumped"? I resigned from my mgmt position because the company would not move OM or me. W ended the A and we moved back to where her parents lived. We went to MC for the next year or two.
The second OM was her high school boyfriend. She flew back to see him in 2000 and when she returned she filed for D. This was at least an EA, but she did stay at his house, but supposedly separate bedrooms when his W was out of town. W didn't follow through w/D and we went to MC again. We even went to a retreat to help us heal from our issues.
The third OM was a PA that happened in The fall of 2004. At the time I did not know W was addicted to opiates. She was supporting her habit by doing a dog redue business on the side. She had thirty dogs in the backyard and about a half dozen in the house. Although I pleaded with her to get rid of them she refused. Finally animal control and CPS came and took control of the situation. CPS took the kids for about a week. After we got the kids back W started rescuing dogs again. CPS threatened to take the kids away again so I told them W wouldn't listen to me. With in two days she had started a PA with OM from Oklahoma. This A lasted from Sept 2004 to February of 05. We were D in Jan.
Fourth OM was an EA that was an old classmate of W. He has been in federal prison since the mid 90s for dealing drugs and threatening a police officer with a gun. Supposedly he had an illegal FB account and found W. W told me that she felt guilty about something and confessed that they had been sexting each other. This was about a yr ago that she revealed this EA. She continues to chat with him but claims that he is just a friend. The fifth OM, another old classmate was last Sept and was a little more than EA. I don't know the correct classification, but she sent at least one video of her using a vibrator.
M 53 W 44 D25 D20 S22 PA 10/95 BD abt 2k EA BD 9/2004 PA D'd 1/05/05 DB'd 9/2004-08 PA ends 02/2005 XW rehab 03/2005 piecing until OM3 June?/2005 Remarried 12/28/07 BD 12/18/14 Sep living together
